I would add "dump him" but some may consider that too extreme.
My real issue is: it's night time, the one time of the day when you should surely be "allowed" to just be yourself with no fear of judgement. I not only wear a satin bonnet I sleep in a granny nightie! They are more comfortable and luckily for me my husband is attracted to me despite it. Where do you stand on the issue?
The good news is that most guys aren't bothered by satin bonnets, however, some guys simply don't like the look. I don't know why. My Harry isn't bothered by it at all. He's worn one to bed a couple of times to support me. He's a real keeper that boy!
First, don't worry if your boo doesn't like it, you're in fairly good company. There seem to be two solutions:
- Switch to a satin pillowcase
- Talk about it until he understands why you need it.
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