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No One Ever Told Us That by John D Spooner

3/5/2012

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I believe in the wisdom of older people regardless of wealth or educational background. (Most) old people are precious, you can't buy their life experiences, you can only hope to share in some of them. In this book, John D. Spooner shares a series of letters that he has written to his grandchildren to prepare them for "life"

Both my grandfathers died before I was even two so I took to thinking of JD Spooner as a sort of surrogate grandfather, or papa as his grandchildren refer to him, as I read this book. I won't go into detail regarding all the examples he gave, however, I would like to share the following lessons I got from the book in the hopes that one or two might touch you. These are not exact quotes, they are just notes I took as I listened to the audiobook.
  • Dare to be different
  • Human nature never changes
  • Debt can be good but it can also be downright wicked
  • Build your own team, don't just take on your parents' team of advisors
  • Your trustee, lawyer and money manager should all be different people
  • Always pay your lawyer by the hour not as a percentage of your estate
  • We can all get jammed up in life no matter how smart we think we are or how well we've planned
  • Make yourself memorable
  • If you're doing well for your company ask for stuff: an expense account, a company car, more holiday
  • Fear always replaces greed and vice versa in the financial markets
  • You can't save some people from themselves
  • All in life is negotiable
  • Burn no bridges
  • Bet on people not on fads or concepts
  • No one's going to make you rich except yourself. Don't bet the ranch on someone else's dream
  • Think about how you present yourself. It's in this part of the book you realize how wealthy the Spooner family is. Mimi (papa's wife) recommended a good Channel suit as part of one's wardrobe - I don't think I have ever even been to Chanel (or any designer of that calibre) and thought of buying, maybe I'm too much of a scrooge!
  • Do your due diligence. Trust but verify (he quoted Ronald Reagan)
  • Never spend the money until it's in your pocket
  • Cultivate a sense of flexibility
  • Make your work your play
  • If you arrive economically, to hell with it, go first class all the way, you've earned it, don't feel guilty about it
  • Share your wealth
  • In assessing companies, get to know the receptionist
  • Scared money never wins
  • Don't take yourself too seriously
  • No matter how busy you get, exercise
  • Trust your network, not the internet
  • Always follow through on promises
  • Word of mouth if not forced can be one of the best marketing techniques
  • Don't forget what you tell people because they'll remember
  • Stay in touch with people from your past, it's people who make life extraordinary
  • Love is extremely important in all its forms
  • You never know anyone until you deal with their money
  • Suck that lemon dry - I still don't know what this means!

This book is a bible for the ups and downs of modern day life and it doesn't take long to read! The audio version is only five hours.
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If you don't get any of the above, get the book, it will be one of the best "investments" you make all year.

Some of my thoughts:
I disagreed with his property investing strategy. He paid all cash when, I think, the genius of property investing in the developed world lies in leverage, using other people's money - but that's another blog on its own.

When he covered bonds, JD Spooner didn't cover index-linked bonds, linkers. He simply said that it is equities that keep up with the cost of living, however, Linkers also keep up with inflation. Perhaps this was taking a step too far into high finance.

In the section on staying in touch with his past, JD Spooner talked about a friend of his from high school that was a plumber in a town that he moved to. He called the guy to help him out with his plumbing. I wondered, how does he feel when he's in touch with people from his past that haven't achieved nearly as much as he has: he's a multimillionaire investment advisor and author of several bestsellers. In this book, "papa" talks about owning several million dollars of Citigroup stock before it tanked and that would only be one stock in an extensive portfolio, I expect. His friends must revere him, how does he relay to them that he's still the same old guy? This is the only query that remained outstanding by the time I finished the book.

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Dali
3/5/2012 05:57:43 pm

Wow, looks like a great read! I definitely love learning from people and i've taken to reading autobiographies, when i can. Staying In touch definitely matters and while you feel that his friends may not be able to relate, I want to disagree. I think its dependent on the manner that someone chooses to interacts with someone else. I know some rich students who are are so down to earth that you dont feel that they are any different( I didnt even know they were rich until someone else mentioned it!). Its the persons attitude (if for example he talks to the friend with a sense of 'why didnt you do anything with your life? kind of apporach then, well,,,

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Ms. Katsonga
4/5/2012 06:00:58 pm

Thanks Dali. My point isn't that he's rich but they started life off as equals. That very fact changes the dynamic of a relationship. If someone you know has always been rich finding out about their wealth or lack of it changes nothing. If you were both average wealth in school and they amass a much greater amount...the dynamic has to change.

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bridget
31/5/2012 11:17:32 pm

def sounds like a good read. tempted to think that your summary of it will prob be adequate to start off from 4 some of us, i like the way it comes across. i have always thot that we all hav so much knowledge about various aspects that we could share. being a new mum am filling up baby's treasure box full of news and items that will hopefully make her journey in this world fascinating. Looks lyk this book could def make it into the collection.

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Ms. Katsonga
5/6/2012 04:04:01 am

I definitely want to know what else has gone into this little treasure box.

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